With Friends Like These Who Needs Enemies?

I am not the sort of person who blogs about a fight but due to recent events I just had to. Ive noticed how stupid and moronic people can be. many just love to put others down including their friends. At first I believed high school drama was over-exaggerated in movies but now Ive come to realize it is exactly like in the movies. Usually its always over a guy or being prom queen or just simply being on top. so IL stop improvising and get to the story.
Me and my friends just finished high school and were inseparable. Many applied to the same universities and got acceptances. The others wanted a bit of adventure and wanted to study in different countries. After everything was decided a few friends had to pack and move away. So for their last night in town we decided to have a conference call and wish them good luck together. The friend who came up with the plan didn't want all the friends to be included and the others thought that to be unfair. So the idea of a second conference emerged. We talked had a good laugh and then at the time of the second conference my friends expressed her true feelings for me. She was jealous that her pathetic idea had been stolen and that she was the one who deserved to make the call. My question was if shed hated the idea of the second conference she should have just said so? Wasn't this the stupidest of things to fight over?